Having teenage children and a decade plus with critical husbands and having had critical (though loving) parents and a critical sister, I realize that it is no wonder I am sarcastic where I used to be optimistic and funny. I also never fit in anywhere, though I am naturally perceived to be the natural leader and life of the party. I do not fit into any mold anyone has tried to force me into- good or bad. And I never understood why I was expected to conform to anyone else’s ideal me. I used to judge and criticize others because I was judged and criticized, but the closer I get to Jesus, the less I criticize and judge and the more I see truth and who He made me to be and He did not make me a sheep. He made me for Him- very specifically designed to serve in any way needed.
And I believe every specific person was designed on purpose for God. I believe God hand crafts every person to be distinctive, purposeful, fulfilling a role designed by Him. No accidents, no molds, no cookie cutters, no mistakes. So we must never compare or conform. We must treasure our uniqueness, be thankful and use it for God and where needed.😃❤️