To know when someone needs an inspirational truth versus a kick in the pants or just plain silence is an art, when it comes to encouraging others. Strangers can be encouraged with a smile or simple gesture of picking up something they dropped and giving it back to them. Some people now are encouraged by just eye contact, being seen, in a world of brainless phone zombies everywhere.
But knowing when to encourage with what around acquaintances or friends or family is an art. I am really good at this, a secondary spiritual gift as it were. How do I know. It is not magic, not willy nilly. The secret is a four-banger.
1. Pay attention. Step away from the phone, leave it at home, look around and observe. Can you see Jesus busy on the phone on social media rather than seeing the sick that needed healing? Be available and notice people.
2. Make a deliberate choice to encourage whoever is in your path or sphere of influence right now. Decide to serve and help. Put the selfishness aside and choose to serve in this way. And decide truth is all your lips will ever utter.
3. Ask God for wisdom and discernment. God is very generous with wisdom, especially when we ask humbly with a willingness to serve. He will impart insight at the right time.
4. Stay in an attitude of prayer and running conversation with God, who longs to keep a relationship with us. When you stay focused on Him, He shows you what needs to be done. This is subtle so attention is required, bringing us back to #1.
Hope this helps. Hope I have encouraged you to encourage others. Encouragement is so beautiful and gives an extra depth and meaning to life.😄❤
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